Questions on top of questions

We have the two worst repetitive question situations running simultaneously: "Do you need shirts for your trip?" and "When are we going to the grocery store?" The answers are "I do need shirts but not until Tuesday" and "Not today but before I leave town." Today I've identified "which shirts" three times, and just now she came up and asked how I wanted my shirts...

How do I want my shirts ironed? The usual way, I guess. She explained she didn't know if I was going to hang them or fold them. I told her I would eventually fold them--two days from now, so if she's ironing tonight, put them on hangers. 

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Update, several hours later: 

She just came up making folding signs with her hands. 

"Do you want me to fold your shirts?" 

"Hangers."

"Well that's what I wanted to know."